websites are not RED, they are generally WHITE

On a side note, I'm trying this new program that Ren's friend is studying for a psych project. It is quite fascinating so far. This is one of the things they say about me (it gives a personality profile):
"To always be responsible and dependable gets too heavy at times and you just have to shirk it all sometimes of and do something that is wild and crazy, like going to sleep WITHOUT brushing your teeth. Come and do your worst, dental bacteria! No one is arguing that you are not reliable; it's just that you differ from your very high conscientious peers in that you also have some streaks of impulsivity and can make some spontaneous decisions, rather than lumbering through all of the alternative scenarios. Maybe you're disorganized (God forbid), or perhaps you like to leave your dirty socks all over the house (the horror), or you're a procrastinator (that's the worst one of all). Whatever is the case, you are not conscientious to the extent that you bore people with your stodgy ways."

Did you catch that part about not brushing the teeth? Yeah. Totally me sometimes. I love the attitude this site has. Love it!

Link to the website: http://www.youjustgetme.com

Link to me: http://www.youjustgetme.com/Alison1L

cardboard boxes are not RED, but that'd be pretty sweet

I've been in "moving" mode all day. And yesterday. And the day before. It wears on a girl; it does. Chattanooga to Nashville was a move... but it wasn't the BIG MOVE. This is the big move. Thankfully I get to keep my mother until Friday. Makes it a little easier. She and I are driving up in Henry (packed to the roof and then some) and she will fly back to Nashville at the end of the week.

This is the best way. I went through all the options (including my mother renting a car and driving that up, renting a UHAUL and towing Henry, Henry attempting to tow a baby UHAUL, and leaving Henry behind...). These were all unacceptable for various reasons. Mostly I'm stubborn. Lol.

So I'm going to go spend the money that would have been used to pay for a UHAUL truck and the gas to go in it... in favor of shipping two large boxes of clothes, shoes, blankets, towels, etc. It will save me the grief of driving a strange vehicle or towing something/strapping something to the roof. In Henry goes the TV, the laundry basket filled with the rest of the clothes and blankets and shoes, a 208 capacity cd wallet holding my DVD collection, my DVD player, the laptop, and then small boxes with electronics, toiletries, office supplies, coffee shop paperwork/gear, a first aid kit/med. box, and journals and papers. Then of course Mom and I will get in Henry. Oh the joy packing will be tomorrow!

That's what I know. I'll post again when I'm unpacked Wednesday or Thursday.

Love,
your TN girl

p.s. If you are the praying sort, one of my coworkers needs your prayers for her family. Just some scary transitions and loses coming around the bend - one of them being a new grandbaby that's sick in the hospital. So, direct your prayers her way, please.

Red Traffic Lights are indeed RED, but I pretended it was GREEN

So I got pulled over this morning. At 5:28am. On my way to the coffee shop. For running a red light.

And by "running a red light," I mean sitting at a stoplight for 3 minutes, waiting for anything to happen. I love Henry, but sometimes I feel like he just can't set off the sensors at stoplights so we can turn. So anyway, there was no sign of us setting off any sensors so the light would ever turn green for us. So no one's coming and I am gradually getting nearer to the time when the store opens and I need to be there. So I watch for traffic (none left, none right, none left) and turn left. Two cars are a ways off. Guess who was in the second car? Yeah....

So he was as nice as he could be and I apologized and said I was going to work. He said not to run any red lights but admitted that he knew what that felt like (and perhaps was confessing that he himself has run some reds??). Anyway. I was actually quite glad looking back that he wasn't a complete jerk about it. He understood. I understood. I got my warning. We went on about our day.

It wasn't an altogether terrible experience. Generally I freak out. Guess I'm getting older? EEK!

Asheville is not RED, but the Hippies sure are

So I'm not sure what it is about Asheville Hippies (one shirt boasted the saying, "Altitude Affects Attitude") but they have a beef with the world and they are going to take it out on every outsider who crosses their path. Heavens!!

I made the grievous mistake of asking some hippie sweeping in front of her shop front (organic clothing) if there was a Starbucks anywhere. I needed some soy chocolate milk desperately and wasn't sure if the 80 coffee shops we passed on the way in would have soy milk or not. So I asked if there was a Starbucks around. *Hiss* "Um, no. There aren't any Starbucks around here... but Ziggy's coffee shop down the street has a great cup of coffee." I inquire about soy milk and that being the key factor in deciding my coffee shop of choice for the day. She says that it's Asheville and of course they do. Well okay then. As we are feeding the parking meter by her shop, she adds as a friendly suggestion:

"You know that soy milk contributes to the deforestation of Africa, right?"

"No, I didn't. I'll have to read up on that."

And dad and I proceed to QUICKLY walk towards Ziggys. Here I thought I was being a good girl drinking my soy milk and now this chick has a beef with that. We were talking to the wonderful girl at Bath Junkie later and recounting the story. I joked about saying "So what do YOU drink?" to the scary hippie. But the bath girl simply said that would have been even scarier as she might have gone into a story about how she captures rainwater off her roof and sends it through a special purifier which then is used to make her ice, run her toilet, and give her delicious organic water. Lol. I feared bath girl was only too correct.

So we find the Starbucks later. I go in to get my chocolate soy milk, 4 pumps mocha, 1 pump vanilla, light ice cup of perfection and ask the guy up front about it. He confirms that there are really scary hippies downtown and that the Starbucks on Charlotte street has had a brick thrown through its window a few times. CAN YOU IMAGINE?! So much hatred towards a freaking coffee shop that you'd throw a brick through its window?

Asheville is obviously not the place for me. I'd have to fight too many hippies to survive.

Otherwise, I like it. The antic junk shops, the funny one way streets, the one of kind eateries (including, sadly, some awesome coffee shops - hippies and all), and interesting people.

I adore Bath Junkie (click for website). She has the bases for shower gels, body lotions, bath salts, bath bubbles, etc. You merely decide what scent and color you want it to be!! That way, she said, they never run out of a scent that you enjoy like B and B works does. She says she often times has people bring in their B&BW scents and she matches them and makes them better. Of course, being in Asheville, all of her stuff is organic and good for you and doesn't have alcohol. I got some shave gel that has the scent of Green Tea and Aloe Vera. HEAVENLY!! I want to shave my legs all the time now.

What else? Um.. Dad and I had a delicious meal at the Grove Park Inn last night. I had crab cakes, a baby spinach salad with out of this world dressing, half of some Chilean sea bass delight that dad ordered, Gouda mac and cheese (as a side), and then some creme brulee. YUM! Best dinner we've had while being here. Even beat the Biltmore. Anywho, dad and I did a little hike (wish I had pictures of the top of one of the blue ridge mtns) and a lot of walking in the past few days so hopefully all that deliciousness hasn't gone straight to my hips (ha!). Alas, I'll be walking enough in the next four years to loose any excess gained in the last non-walking year of my life. ;)

Till next time, I remain your red head.

Biltmore is not RED, Vanderbilt isn't either!

I haven't formed the words to describe Biltmore in my head yet... because I don't believe there are words. It is just me looking around, saying "wow" on repeat, and looking at dad with eyes that say "really?!?!!"

At the same time, it is incredibly peaceful. George Vanderbilt did a phenomenal job with the help of his architect, Richard Morris Hunt, and his landscape architect, Frederick Law Olmsted. It is simply breathtaking. What is sad is that it was not a family house for very long (opened Christmas eve 1895 and then was opened to the public in 1930). I love that Cornelia (George and Edith's only child) and her husband (John Francis Amherst Cecil) opened it up to the public, but at the same time, I mourn the loss of it being a family residence. Apparently, they did so at the request of Asheville's city leaders to boost tourism after the depression. Their son now owns the home and his son is the President and CEO of Biltmore. The gal that did our tour today said William, Sr. still comes by the estate. So funny to have been in the room that he and his brother and also his mother in 1900 were born (and sad to know that the tradition couldn't continue)!

Actually, I really like the Vanderbilts. I was expecting to be a little disgusted at the lavishness of the house and grounds... but am quite pleasantly happy to be here and hear the stories. They constantly had company. Their friends were coming and going all the time. They wanted this to be a place of respite from the chaos of the city. One of the comments on the tour was about the absolute quiet that would have been here. Imagine rocking on the back porch, with that view filling up your eyes, and a peaceful stillness in your ears. Incredible.

One of the best parts was the Halloween room and the nonsense book. You can tell these people had fun. Cornelia took guests one night down to the basement when it was too cold to go outside. They painted the walls! No one really knows the stories behind the pictures but it is certainly evident that they had a good time. I wish I could find a picture of it for you.

By the way... really odd to not have a camera at my side though in a way it is freeing to not have to snap up pictures of places to share later. Would have been nice when we were on the highest balcony of the biltmore though. Ah, perhaps the people we took the tour with will send me some. I'll certainly post what he e-mails my way. ;)

Gotta get ready for dinner. More tomorrow...

Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago is not RED, it is Brown

Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago

A link to my school should you feel so inclined to check it out. ;)

My school is not RED, but it ROCKS

So I called my school on Friday. Just to ask a few questions about parking, books, laundry, mailing boxes there, my class, etc. No one answered. I left a message and forgot about it. Today I get a call from "UNAVAILABLE" on my phone. I rarely answer these but felt like it would be a good idea. Low and behold: the fabulous co-director of the Financial Aid and Admissions office as LSTC. Hurrah!

I got all of my little questions in. All of them. Could I park there? (Yes, on the street for free at my own risk or in the parking garage for $30 a month.) How many are in the incoming class? (50.) From my synod? (3, including myself.) Could I receive mail there/mail myself boxes? (Yes, all mail can be addressed to me at the school's address - LSTC, 1100 East 55th Street, Chicago, IL 60615 - we are small enough that my name is all one will need!) Laundry facilities at the apartment complex or off campus? (In each courtyard, with my access card.) When is everyone else moving in? (Next week, just like me. Though some are already there. Yay!) International kids? (5 in my incoming class.) How can I bank there? (This is yet to be fully addressed though I am sure making my coffee shop paycheck automatic deposit will be a huge help.)

I feel SO much better. Don't you?

Storage Units are not RED, they are bland gray concrete cells with spiders on the side

I feel like I haven't stopped moving for the last 5 years. And to a point, I haven't. I have moved once a year at least since starting school. My life has been lived in bins, bags, and cardboard boxes.

Home to Lockmiller. 8 months. Lockmiller to home. 3 months.
Home to Lockmiller. 8 months. Lockmiller to Little Blue House. 12 months.
Little Blue House to Girls House. 3 months.
Girls House to Laredo House. 17 months.
Laredo House to W's House and McUnit. 6 months.
W's House and McUnit to Home. 1 month.

and upcoming...
Home to Chicago - indefinitely.

I am just so tired of moving. Of packing. Of unpacking. Of repacking. Of sorting. Of throwing away things. Of being told to throw away things. Of finding trucks/vans to move in.

Needless to say. I'm over it. I can't wait to be done with school so I can settle into a home somewhere. Until then, I know that I am always welcome at mom's, dad's, my siblings, the W's, the Bell's, and on various other couches throughout the south... but I am ready to be where my stuff is.

Perhaps the message here to me should be something about letting go of all the junk. Of really and truly simplifying my life. Giving away all the things that I like to call "mine" and living on only what I need. The question of course is how to do this cost effectively so I'm not merely repurchasing newer models of things I've just thrown away (though that sounds appealing to me all on its own...). I told Whit that I am fearful that as soon as I throw away something, I will need it or someone will ask me, "Hey, do you have a smiley face dust pan? Blue dental floss? A tan rain coat? A cake stand? Blue nail polish? A salad spinner? Gold eye shadow? Aloe Vera gel? A heart shaped muffin pan? Cassette tape of the Cats Musical?" (Yes, I have these things.)

What do I do when I have to tell myself/them... "No" ?? *gasp* Must try this word sometime. Guess Chicago is as good a place as any to start. ;)

1 Pump Sugar Free Vanilla Nonfat Kids Milks are not RED

Warning: Every now and then I get customers I DESPISE. They are few and far between but they arrive at my counter all the same. Here's a story from today. I'm warning you, I am merely venting this entire post. I am hopeful this woman was actually a wonderful mother and if not, that her poor son will turn out normal once he finally leaves her. With that, I give you my tale of woe.

I have been picking up a few shifts here at the local coffee shop, not only to give me some extra funds, but to see how working at another store is before moving up to good ole' Chicago. (I am currently in Nashville for one more week before Mom and I head north on the 19th with Henry packed to the roof.) So I am happily making drinks today... In a line of drinks, I am happily steaming milk and talking to customers. The third sticker I come to is in a short cup and the modifier is "1 pump sugar-free vanilla." Okay, I think. A kids hot chocolate with one pump of mocha and one pump of sugar free vanilla. A little odd, but I'm gonna go with it. I make it. I present it.

I am quickly corrected. "Um, we ordered a milk with sugar free vanilla." And she points it out on the label. Oops, my bad. I generally assume those drinks in short cups are all kids hot chocolates. I explain this to her and quite happily apologize and begin to remake the drink. I figure she wanted to get the boxed vanilla milk that we keep but wanted to do it cheaper and make it sugar free. I start to reach for a cold cup figuring it was supposed to be a cold version. But oh no, it is STEAMED milk with sugar free vanilla. Okay.... very odd but I'm gonna go with it.

I begin pick up the 2% milk container to begin steaming my milk again. But as I'm getting milk out, I figure I will give this mom a chance to redeem herself and offer her WHOLE milk in addition to 2% and Nonfat. I am really hoping for her sake that she chooses whole milk or at the very least 2%. It would be ever more fabulous if she said it didn't matter.

Yeah, you guessed it. She says that nonfat milk "would be great." So as I'm beginning to steam this nonfat milk to a kids temp, she reminds me, "Oh, that's supposed to be kids temperature." I think, "Yeah lady, I'm making your poor kid this excuse for a treat. I got it covered." But, I already screwed up the drink once, so I'll give her that one. I finish it. One pathetic pump of sugar free vanilla. Some warm nonfat milk. And only 8oz of it. I present it again with a smile.

She picks it up. THEN SHE TRIES IT HERSELF. Then nods and hands it to, get his, her SEVEN OR EIGHT year old son....

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Several things are wrong with this. To begin with, that's the first time I've ever had anything that pretentious for a CHILD before. I understand only getting one pump of mocha or getting no whip cream. Alas, this is no lightly modified hot chocolate delight. THIS drink is a poor man's vanilla creme. TIP: Don't order a milk and ask me to steam it and add some syrup. Order a sugar free vanilla creme sans the whip. Secondly, he's 8. Let him order his own freakin' drink and then don't go and taste it. HE IS SEVEN OR EIGHT YEARS OLD. And finally, and most important of all, you are DESTROYING your child.

I know this appears harsh. I assure you - I mean it to be. I am passionate about kids and about them eating right. I've seen scores of parents try all different things. Most of the time, I completely understand. Heck, I spent a great deal of time with a little boy that drank soy milk only and ate mostly organic foods. (Note: I drink soy now mostly due to them - - and the Skinny Bitch book.) I spend time thinking about my future children and what concerns me the most about them and how I plan to raise them. Besides the basics like knowing they are loved and making sure they are happy... I have a few things on my mind. First and foremost, I want them to have an indestructible self confidence. Secondly, I want them to be healthy. Play a little sports. Drink a little soy. Have a few cookies. Love asparagus. (I don't ask much, do I?) Other things are on this list, but it is the second item that we now turn to.

I despise sugar free things in general. They are cancer causing poor excuses for the stuff you really want. Or if you don't want the "healthy" raw sugar, use honey or some other sweetener. (I admit, when I do drink soda, I try to drink Diet. But, I avoid sugar substitutes at all other times - be it yogurt, breads, dressings, etc.). Anyway, I hate that this mother ordered a sugar free syrup for her kid. Maybe he's got some kind of specific allergy. MAYBE. I doubt it, though. She looked more like the over controlling paranoid kind of mother than she did the loving, caring, health conscious mom. I could be wrong.

The nonfat put me over the edge. CHILDREN NEED FAT. *Sigh* I am trying to calm myself down now. But seriously - CHILDREN NEED FAT. They are not mini versions of adults who should diet and try keep the belly at bay. Do you know how active kids are? How much they run and play and talk a mile a minute. On top of this, their little bodies are trying to GROW. You can't grow without fat. I'm not saying you should come into the the coffee shop and order extra mocha extra vanilla breve hot chocolates for your kids, but COME ON. I can't stand to see stick skinny children. Also, getting an iced tall nonfat caramel latte for yourself and getting your kid a SHORT WARM NONFAT 1 PUMP SUGAR FREE VANILLA MILK is ridiculous. When I took H with me to the coffee shop, she got her chocolate milk or her apple juice and I got my vanilla chai. I feed my addiction, she feeds hers. I don't want parents to stuff their kids full of sugar and fat, but if you cut it out completely, there will be HUGE problems for the kid later on.

I am just so incredibly upset at this woman that I can hardly give you a good argument why. I just think it is inhumane to come into a coffee shop and get, as a TREAT for your son, a milk with one measly half oz pump of sugar free vanilla. I think it is sad. If this was the TREAT out, I shudder to think of what she actually gives him for snacks or meals. Tofu? Uncooked organically grown cauliflower? Whole wheat pasta with all natural, sugar free, extra veggie, no-meat, tomato paste sauce? Yum....

I must quit. If I don't make any sense, try to find it in your heart to forgive me. If you see where I am so in-eloquently going here, say a prayer for that kid. Say a really long prayer for the mother should I ever cross her path again. I pray that she doesn't show up next Sunday. I'd hate to give her a piece of my my mind.

p.s. Some of friends when I was younger had really over controlling parents. Now their facebook photos and profiles show them drunk often, overcome by eating disorders, and obsessed with the opposite sex... I don't want to make assumptions about over controlling parents and problems... but I feel I already made it to that conclusion before I posted this post. *Sigh*

My Clothes are not RED, they are mostly gray and blue and black

Hello gang. Long time no type! Been a long day. I've been gathering, sorting, and packing up my clothes. I've been trying on things for mom and waiting for a nod or a crinkled nose and a head tilt. That's when I know it is really bad. I have a massive pile of clothing for the Salvation Army that I've never seemed to be able to let go of before. Why is it that we hang on to the completely unnecessary long past its necessity?

...and that's only the clothes. I have yet to go through DVD's, CD's, kitchen stuff, office supplies, books, and things for scrap booking. I haven't scrap booked a thing since sophomore year. Not a thing. I've done collages... but not scrap booking. Mostly I've been taking pictures and saving scraps of things that hold some kind of meaning. A note, an invitation, a photograph, a torn piece of paper with a quote on it. These are the things that fill up the boxes that take up an entire section of my dad's garage. Yes, I am a pack rat. I admit that freely.

Let's move on. It has been great getting to see Mom, Dad, Sibling, Ren, Lem, Ash, Bema, Lee and Po. I already miss Chattanooga though. I never thought my home would be so spread out. It seems I've planted little pieces of me in places I can't leave behind. *Sigh* Now, as Rob says, I've got to go and make a home of all the hearts awaiting me in Chicago.

p.s. What follows, you can skip entirely or merely skim over. It is the cranky side of me that is not so sweet... but I need a place to vent. What better place to do it than my blog?